Things do not change: we change. – Henry David Thoreau
What is bothering you? In what areas of your life are you hoping that something or someone else will change?
You have a role in this tension. If your workplace should be more collegial, you can start by being a better team player, becoming more approachable, or listening more. If your family should be more helpful, you can ask for what you need and step back when people do try to help. If your results have plateaued, you can switch your strategy, get help, or drop old goals altogether.
We can hope for change or be the change. What are you going to act on right after you read this post?